An Old Fashioned Girl

Let the Punishment fit the Crime...

2012-01-27T13:20:00.000-08:00

I have been on a Hayley Mills movie kick this week.

It all started with my most favorite non-animated Disney movie.. The Original Parent Trap.. and then led to Summer Magic, Pollyanna.. and The Moon Spinners.

I don't know what it is about Hayley Mills.. but I adore her.

On Thursday.... I had just finished watching Moon Spinners... and it was time to get the kids from school. On my way to grab the keys.. the phone rang and I could see it was the kids school.

I was sure one of the kids had missed the bus... but No.. it was Christian's teacher.. and then I felt a little panicked.

I sat down.

Teacher: "I just wanted to call you and let you know of an incident that happened today."

I felt sick.

Teacher: " Christian and some other boys decided to flood the bathroom sink in the boys bathroom.

Don't worry.. he has met with the principal.. and the boys all have an understanding about it now."

Me.. ( Stunned...but not shocked ) I am so sorry. -- I think I said I was sorry about 20 times.

I told her we would "talk to him" but she acted like she didn't want us to do anything... because they had already discussed it? What does an "understanding mean?"

I hung up.

Of course I called Chad first.. and told him to think about what we should do for punishment.

While I talked with Chad--Christian came in the door as if nothing had happened.

Then.. I told him his teacher had just called -- and I watched panic appear quickly.

He told me the story.. and then told me the Principal made he and the boys go and clean up all of the other bathrooms in the school. ( pick up garbage and etc. )

Even though he had paid his "dues" with the school.. I Still wanted him to have some sort of punishment here.

Chad came home.. and we had a talk with him about Peer Pressure.. and Choosing the Right... and then all of the sudden.... I thought of Parent Trap.. and when the girls got into trouble.. and the Camp leader says: " Let the Punishment Fit the Crime."

How wise! Yes! Let the Punishment Fit the Crime!!

So... rather than grounding him from Video Games ( he just came off of being grounded from ) -- we decided that he would do one cleaning chore each day -- on top of his regular chores.

He wasn't thrilled.

So.. yesterday... I gave him his first "Chore" and told him to scrub the tile and baseboards clean... as they were all marked up.

Is that too harsh?

I will admit... I am a strict mama!

As I walked over to "Supervise".. I felt a little sad wondering if I had been to "strict" seeing him on his hands and knees scrubbing the corners with a toothbrush...

I felt like a Jail Warden.

But after about 10 minutes.. Christian said:

Mom! This is kinda fun! Can I do this every day for my job?

EPIC FAIL!

Just when I think I have "parenting" thing down.. I realize I don't.

Keeps us Humble right?

Today I am Grateful for:

A whole week of Exercising. Yay!

80's music.

Answered Prayers

Hugs and Kisses

Comfort today. It's been 7 months since Dad's passing.

Keeping Puzzles in Order....

2012-01-25T09:16:00.000-08:00

Puzzles.

They are my go to when I hear " I'm bored."

We can do them as a family.. and there is one for everyone.

Whether they have an easy 24 pieces... or a more difficult 2000 pieces... it's fun to tackle something.. and feel a sense of pride and accomplishment after.

Sometimes we have "puzzle races." -- Of course everyone is always a winner here.

One thing that can be frustrating.. is keeping puzzles together.

What else is frustrating?

Doing an entire puzzle.. and when you get down to the last 2 pieces.. they are missing.

That alone can ruin your whole day.

Just kidding.

Not the whole day... but maybe the moment.

So... how do we become less "frustrated?"

Do the edges first. that always helps me. :)

But really....

Your puzzles can have order.

Not necessarily how they are stored:

( although I love mine in a filing system because they are easy to retrieve and put away )

-- but I am talking about when you clean up a room... and you find that dreaded lonely puzzle piece that somehow didn't make it back in the box.

If you only own 1 or 2 puzzles... it's probably not very hard to figure out where it goes.. but if you are like my family.. and we own about 50 puzzles.. then "hunting" for the home of a missing piece can be daunting. ~ Especially if it's a picture of Donald Duck.. and you own 5 Donald Duck Puzzles.

So.. how to make life easier with puzzle pieces?

I got this idea from my Mother.

When I was little.. we owned many a puzzles... and my Mom would always mark the back of the puzzle pieces right after we opened it.

We even helped mark each piece sometimes... because it was fun.

This can be a task you can do while watching TV or etc.. and it is SOO nice to have done.

Because we have 5 Donald Duck puzzles... I put DDB ( For Donald Duck Bull ) and then wrote it on the inside of the box as well. It is so nice to know what piece goes to what!

And if you have a very LARGE puzzle with very small pieces.. you can just use a symbol such as * or ♥ for each piece.

If it makes you cringe to write on a puzzle-- because you are a collector.. and you just know this puzzle is going to ~~not~~ be worth millions one day... then don't.

You can take the chances.

Enjoy a puzzle today!

PS: If you are de-junking puzzles.. make sure all pieces are there if you send it to the thrift store.

If it has a missing piece that cannot be found.. toss it in the garbage!

*****

Today I am Grateful for:

Pre-kindergarten shots are over.

It was just as hard for Mommy-- as it was for Mary Caroline yesterday.

The Temple. My place of peace.

Our Wood Burning Stove.

Daily Blessings.

Exercise. It's killing me for good.

.... Over the Weekend

2012-01-23T08:43:00.000-08:00

Over the weekend.....

We had lots of Rain that turned into SNOW!

Looking out at the mountains is the only place I enjoy to see it.

I am pretty bah-hum-bug when it comes to it.

Counting down the days until Spring.....

Over the weekend....

An Appraiser came over pretty early Saturday morning.. as we are hoping to re-finance our house.

We woke up early to make the beds... and after he left... I walked around.... and couldn't find a single thing to do.

All of the dishes, laundry, and chores were all finished.

The house was in complete order.

I felt so.... strange.

Chad proclaimed it was awesome.

That hasn't happened in a really long time.. but I admit.. I didn't know what to do with myself.

I'm ALWAYS doing something.

I thought about calling someone to help them organize... but instead.. we stayed "in" and watched movies all afternoon.

I was lazy.

It felt weird.

Over the weekend.....

Chad and I were driving down to Lehi for my Grandpa's 90th Birthday party... and we were all alone.

It was just the two of us... and I felt so happy and content sitting there by him.

I remember when we were first married and we were observing an old couple sitting in a restaurant.

They were not talking... just eating.

I was quick to judge.. and I said to Chad: " That I hoped we would never be boring to each other. -- That we would always have something to say to each other..."

I felt bad for the couple.

Well... now it's been almost 13 years since we got married.

I leaned over and turned off the radio/noise.

I sat and " Enjoyed the Silence."

-- You all know what this means if you have children surrounding you all the time.

We had a wonderful drive.. and my heart was full.

It made me think of that old couple.

Perhaps they were just content with each others company-- and enjoying the silence as well.

Maybe.

Over the weekend....

I have been trying to think of Organizing posts to share on my blog.

I am going to discuss:

Where/what to do with school papers.

How to Organize Scarfs

How to Organize Puzzles

How/what to do with Lego's.

Any other suggestions????

Please suggest!!!

Today I am Grateful for:

Spending time with Cousins and Aunts and Uncles yesterday.

Downton Abbey! Holy Moly!!! That was quite an episode last night!!

Feeling peace and Content

Getting a letter from an old friend

Started Exercising last week! Haven't blown my resolution yet!!!

Flashback Friday - Grandpa Tenney

2012-01-20T12:13:00.000-08:00

For Flashback Friday this week... I want to show a few pictures of my Grandpa Tenney -- in honor of him turning 90 years old this weekend.

You know I love me some old pictures....

Isn't my Grandpa a Foxy pilot?

I love that Grandpa was always a good man.

Grandpa and some of the other PBY pilots on Green Island.

Grandpa has always been a keen storyteller.. and I have always enjoyed hearing stories about the war... when he and my Grandmother met each other... and stories of my 3rd Great Grandfather Jacob Hamblin who was a peacemaker between the Native Americans and the White men.

Grandpa had a grand way of presenting the stories-- as if we were there.

Grandpa and Grandma Tenney on their Honeymoon in Oakland.

One of my favorite pictures.

You can see the happiness and love that they feel for each other...

Every time we are with Grandpa.. he is always talking so highly still of his "Beautiful Bride."

They have always been incredible examples to me of how to treat your companion...

Grandpa and my Uncle Mike.

Grandpa was always so smart.. and when we were little he was always "testing our skills" with games... especially ones to do with problem solving or some sort of math.

He would say something to the effect of:

2x2+20-19x34+30-11+39x3= and we would have to "think" it as fast as he said it. No paper allowed.. and we had to answer VERY quickly.

I always hated that game.

But.. it makes me smile.. because it is sooo Grandpa.

Whenever I go and see Grandpa now... he always says " How is that cute little Tenney?"

" Is she just as smart as ever? "

And he always has a hug and kiss for each of us.

Grandpa is so predictable.

He smiles with his eyes and has a genuine love for people.

He always smells like onions and garlic.. and gets a big smile on his face when he talks about his family, San Diego, Nati's Mexican restaurant and Dark Chocolate Sees Candy.

I LOVE Grandpa much.. and feel blessed to be his posterity.

♥♥♥

Today I am Grateful for:

The Weekend.

Warm Temperatures and no snow. Yeehaw!

2 days until next Downton Abbey

Happy mail.

Service. Service. Service.

Some of my Favorite Things....

2012-01-19T10:18:00.000-08:00

These are a Few of my Favorite Things Lately...

I do not get paid any money to advertise on my blog.. so these things are truly from me.

If you have not seen this PBS series.... why on earth not???

Chad and I are addicted... and each week I want to discuss what happened!

Yes.. I am passionate about fake shows.. ha!

After season 2 ends... I want to have a blog discussion about this.

Is anyone else so bugged that Thomas is back in the house? UGH!!

This is our families new favorite game. ( Chad especially. )

It's Fast... and LOTS of FUN!

For Christmas.. Mary Caroline's Sunbeam teacher gave her a Book of Mormon with her name engraved on the front. Even though we have many BOM's... this was a special gift to her.. because it's just for her... and she loved her teacher so much.

Mary carries it around the house and pretends to read it. It's so cute.

Primary Teachers never know how truly special they really are... and how much influence they truly have... but they do!

As a family.. we are reading the Book of Mormon together every night -- after Dinner. It's cute as the kids all take turns reading with us... and after we are finished reading.. we turn the time over to Mary to "read." She pretends she is reading and tells us the CUTEST stories.

Makes me want to record her. :)

Even though it is an awful picture of me.. it is a happy picture of Jeff and Jen. :)

Doesn't Jeff and Jen sound good together?

Jennifer has been hanging out with us a lot lately... and this makes us happy!

We like her a lot.

This may be a happy year for a lot of reasons.... and I have a feeling my Dad has something to do with it all. --- Knowing my Dad. We'll see......

Celebrating my Mom's 60th birthday with all of the family at Texas Roadhouse.

Having Cecily here with us!

Cecily is Erin's friend from Australia... and she was touring the USA for 6 months.

During those 6 months.. she stayed in Utah 3 different times for a few weeks at a time.

She learned a lot about large families, the Mormon church, and came on lots of family adventures with us.. and watched us all grieve and mourn over our Father.

She was quickly loved by everyone.. and we were sad to see her go back to Australia last week.

We hope she comes back soon!

Oral B -- Electronic Toothbrushes

I had heard from family and friends how AMAZING these toothbrushes were... but if you know me well... it takes me a long time to "catch up" to where everyone else is as far as Electronic stuff is concerned... plus.. spending $40.00 on a toothbrush.. isn't a top priority.

For Christmas.. Chad's parents gave us these... and we are in LOVE!

Love I say!!!!

My teeth feel like I have been to the dentist -- every night.

LOVE it!

You all know how much time and money I used to spend here... well... even when I am "De-junking" and taking loads to drop off... I usually go in to see if their is anything I "need."

I can proudly proclaim that I have only been in this store 2 times in the New Year... ( and once was pricing bed frames ) -- the other 8 times I have visited DI... I have dropped off and drove on!

This is HUGE! :)

Other Favorites:

Organizing. I have been teaching classes every week... and it has helped me so much to stay busy.. and teach people something I am so passionate about. I love when Women call me or approach me after a class and tell me how they have gone to "work" on what they have learned. Makes me happy.

Counting my Blessings

So many good things are happening right now.. and I am more than grateful.

For all the money spent on the girls rooms.. we saved by selling off their old furniture.

One thing about liking Vintage and Antique stuff.. it doesn't ever go out of style... and I was able to sell all of the pieces for double of what I purchased them for 6 years ago. YAY!

Today I am Grateful for:

The opportunity I have of being a Mother.

It's the hardest.. yet.. most wonderful, and fulfilling job in the world.

My children were sent to me... to save me... I'm sure.

Chocolate Cherry Cupcakes at Kneaders. Oy.

Friends and Family that just "stop by" to chat. I love it.

Faith, Hope and Charity

Service. True Joy and Happiness comes from it.

Happy Changes to the Girls Room - Part 2

2012-01-18T09:48:00.000-08:00

When I did my post yesterday... I realized I had left out quite a few pictures.

Rather than go through and re-arrange it all.. I just decided to make an extra post.

**********

With all of the changes we made... the room actually seems more spacious.

Tenney loves that it looks more "grown up" and feminine.

I will admit.. I am grateful she likes the same styles that I do.

-- It makes me really happy actually.

She keeps begging to have a chandelier in her room too.

-- That's going to be a while... unless I'm extra lucky at Yard Sales this year. :)

We are also going to be on the lookout for a darling throw pillow for each of their beds.

I am just grateful Tenney chose on her own to keep all of her stuffed animal cats on the shelf now -- rather than her bed like before!

I love Rose Prints... and this Vintage print ties in really well with the Bed spreads.

We are a family of collectors.

How do you keep Collections from going overboard? You keep them to one shelf ( or space ) and then when that shelf or space is full.. you then refer to the "one in and one out" rule.

Tenney LOVES the Beach.. and to collect sea shells.. so we filled a vase with the little ones.. and the big ones she has displayed.

If you don't have room to show your collections... are they really worth storing and taking up space?

Tenney also loves to collect Cats. ( I am sure she would collect real ones too -- if we would let her. ) Because the shelf is so full now.. if she begs for one.. I tell her she can purchase it.. but one at home has to go. This may sound harsh to many of you... but it keeps my kids thinking about space... and the purchases they make.

I'm teaching them young to avoid Hoarding. :)

The Doll shelf is upon the top shelf... because they are more sentimental.

Under the shelves is where Tenney keeps her American Girl Dolls.

And next to the American Girl space... we bought my favorite plastic drawers to store the American Girl doll Clothes, shoes and Accessories.

The only "toys" my girls have in their room is the American Girl stuff.

Kids really do feel "overwhelmed" when they have too much stuff -- especially in their room.

Simplify it.

Make it a place that gives them peace and rest.

Today I am Grateful for:

Grandma Tenney made it through her Hip Surgery.

Lots of Days home with my kids this week

Good Health so far this year ( knock on wood )

Watching Cinderella with Mary

Reading the Book of Mormon as a Family every night

Happy Changes to the Girls Room

2012-01-17T09:29:00.000-08:00

We have been hoping to buy Mary Caroline a big girl bed for over 6 months now.

In that time.. Tenney has also been *begging* each day to get her new bed frame up.

I kept dragging my feet.

I looked for a matching headboard for Mary for a few months.. and nothing.

So... this last weekend... we decided to make many changes... and finish the room as we can later.

This was the girls room before. It looks so cluttered to me now.

-- Even though Tenney always kept it clean. :)

In order to fit 2 twin beds in the room... the furniture was all going to have to go. Tenney was a little sad to lose the Vanity/Desk.... but I made it work -- after all... and she doesn't miss it one bit!

This is where Mary Caroline slept. She was almost as big as the entire bed!

She was SUPER excited to go from a toddler bed to........

Her VERY own BIG GIRL BED!!!

She was soooo darling on Saturday night telling Chad and I how "comfortable" it was.

She had a perma grin on her face the entire time. -- Probably even when she was sleeping.

I bought both of the girls the Shabby Chic Comforter Sets from Target... and they have not been a disappointment. The material is soft and cozy. We also sold their dressers... and bought these 2 very tall white ones. Having 2 girls together in a room.. they need lots of clothes space.

You can also see Mary's headboard is actually the "foot board" to Tenney's. We didn't want any fits or tantrums.. so we did this until I find a good headboard for her. We also plan to re-paint the room and add one more piece of furniture later on.

This is Tenney's bed. Isn't the Headboard darling??

I wish I could have a King Size for me.

I switched out the other nightstand for this one with two drawers.. and we will paint it white in the summer.

We de-junked a lot more of the room. I was surprised at how much the girls let go because they wanted the "change" so much.

I am pretty sure this Cinderella shelf is more for me... than the girls. ♥

I found these drawers at Target for $24.99 when I picked up the comforters.. and I almost did a happy dance in the store! I have never seen the 2 top shelves small like that on the top.. and I KNEW exactly that it was the perfect "house" for what I needed!!!

Now all of the Excess Hair flowers have a very functional and happy space!

Very easy to retrieve... and easy to put away... and it's shallow enough to not get lost.

GREAT space!!! I am so happy!

2nd drawer down houses the bows. Same SUPER easy access.

The last 2 drawers hold Tenney's Vanity stuff -- Headbands, ponytails etc.

We also have these up on the wall.

Can you believe how much hair stuff we have? I even de-junked some.

But we love it... and after they get too old to wear them.. we can change this to a magnet board or a jewelry board.

I just put a cute frame on it.. to make it look like "Art."

Even though I am SUPER happy about all of the space.. and changes.

I admit... it was hard to see the Barbie house move out... the Toddler bed go.. and the room change... because it's forcing me to remember that my babies are all growing up.

And there is nothing I can do about stopping that.

Today I am Grateful for:

Selling their old furniture so quickly. Yay for KSL!

Chad commenting last night on how good the room looks.

Organizing classes each week that are keeping me busy.

Chad re-doing my blog template. He is amazing and patient!

Children that are all HAPPY to go to bed.

Flashback Friday

2012-01-13T08:59:00.000-08:00

Cody, Christian, Mary Caroline, Brandon and Tenney

Heber Valley Girls Camp - July 2011

This was taken the weekend after Dad's death. Chad's parents invited us and Kent and Tania's family up to stay in the cabins and do some of the outdoor adventures.

None of us slept too well this night... because a few of the boys were too scared of Bears.

We all LOVE being up in Heber feeling the incredible spirit and participating in different challenge courses each time we go.

We look forward to more times this summer as Grandma and Grandpa H finish their mission -- and head back up on the mountain in a few months.

************

Today I am Grateful for:

A long weekend.

Planning getaways for the summer.

Prayers answered.

Miracles happening each day.

New Adventures.

Organizing Kitchen Gadgets

2012-01-11T09:08:00.000-08:00

Tackling the Kitchen Gadget ~~Monster~~ Drawer.

On New Years Eve... I was hosting a family party at my home.

My Mother asked me where a serving spoon was... and I opened my drawer to this.

We all should have screamed in horror!!!

How could I have such a mess??

Clearly... I had neglected some of my kitchen space.

How does an Organizer let something like this happen??

I will blame it on grief... but I honestly have no idea.

I am just as shocked as the rest of you.

I couldn't have a drawer like this!!!!

I went to work ASAP.

As I emptied every drawer and cupboard in the kitchen.. I also found three rolling pins.

WHAT IN THE ??????????

Have I been living in my house??

I only use one rolling pin maybe 5-10 times a year.

I am not a master baker.. or fancy chef...so why would I need three???

I went on a De-junking spree!

We are going to play a game.

The game is called what are each of these utensils.

What are they even used for?

And why on earth would I hold onto these when I don't know what they are?

Epic Fail.

After De-junking... I sent my pile of ~~crap~~ Utensils to the Thrift store.

BYE, BYE!!

I will not miss your cluttered-mess!

Hello Happy Drawer Organization.

After De-junking.. put everything you are keeping into groups that they go in.

example: Serving spoons, Tongs, Spatula's, Measuring cups.. etc.

Next... measure your space.

I needed to keep most of my serving spoons and tongs because I host so many parties.. and we use them often. If I didn't.... I would have tossed out much more.

Notice I even made room on the side for one rolling pin.

I am using up every bit of my kitchen space because I have so little.

Next... make sure that the drawer is functional.

The things you use most in the front.. to grab quickly.. and the tray in the back is the stuff we only use every once in a while.

We use spatulas every single day.

So.. I gave them their very own easy-to-grab-space where the once in a while rolling pins were once tragically housed.

They are HAPPY there.

My husband was pleased.

The second drawer that "housed" my stuff wasn't so unorganized.. but when I did the other drawer.. I wanted them to match.. because I am OCD like that.

Does anyone else LOVE the old vintage measuring cups like I have?

LOVE that they have a 3/4 and 2/3 cup.

The last drawer I have that houses Kitchen Gadgets I decided to use these smaller 99 cent trays.

Once again I arranged space for the most used measuring spoons in the front.. and then made order of importance as I went to the back of the drawer.

It has been a good experience for me to have to make good use of the little space I have in my kitchen.. but man... I do have plans.. and organizing dreams for when we remodel our kitchen.

Until then... I organize for the space I have!

The other 3 most popular ways to organize kitchen gadgets are:

(1)

Hanging on Hooks

While the OCD part of me LOVES this.. there is also a little bit that makes me nervous.

I can see this being functional for some families.. but it would not be for mine.

Hooks are not so easy to put away as they look.

All 3 of my children put away the dishes.. and this would be a "task" in itsself.

Remember... good organization is easy to retrieve.. and put away.

So... I question if it's really so functional.. even though it's eye candy.

Each person, living situation and home is unique.

You can always try something.. and if it doesn't work... change it to make it work!

(2)

Magnetic Strips

While this may be functional for a few... this scares me way too much.

Maybe it's because I have seen too many horror movies.. and this is very easy access for a serial killer...

or maybe it's the Mommy in me that is terrified that my wide-eyed children will find this wall decor to be all too appealing...

I could even see my children thinking it would be a "fun" game to throw it at the board and watch it stick.

Yikes!!

I shudder as I think about it.

but I personally give it a low score on safety.

(3)

Putting it out in containers on your counter tops.

While I do have one container that houses a few of my "quick grab" utensils.. it is far away from the oven and sink to avoid grease spatter and germy things splashing on them.

It is functional.. but it can collect dust... and too many containers can become a cluttered mess on your counter top.

Choose the Best for your family.

Think "Functional" in everything you do in making space in your home.

*************

I have some openings for Enrichment classes for February and a few in March.

I will travel most area's in Utah within an hour of where I live.

And they are free!!!

Happy De-junking and Organizing!!

Today I am Grateful for:

Downton Abbey's continuing story-still addicted!

Helping others get their homes in order.

Buying myself fresh flowers yesterday.. just because.

Energy to work

Chad and the kids letting me teach classes once a week

Happy 60 years Mom!!!

2012-01-09T10:00:00.000-08:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!!!!!

My Mom is one that doesn't love to be fussed over.

But she needs to be fussed over.

Today as she turns 60 years old... I want to share 60 things about her.

1- She was given the Nickname " January Blue-eyed blond " by her Daddy.. and I think I have heard him call her that every year since I can remember.

2- Mom's Happiest Face and Place is San Diego.

3- Mom reads more books than any single person I have ever known. A book is just as important as her purse -- when leaving the house.

4- Mom has the greatest collection of old children's books-- than anywhere I have EVER seen.

5- Mom is a fabulous cook.

6- Mom hates Seafood.

7- Mom loves BYU sports. Especially Football.

8- Mom had a variety of animals growing up in CA -- including a spider monkey.

9- Mom's play land is -- and has always been The Beach.

10- Only for the love of Dad -- is why Mom moved from CA for Utah.

11- Mom and Dad met at Brigham Young University -- in German class.

12- When I was little.. and they didn't want us to know what they were saying.. they would speak German. Now the family does the same thing-- only with Russian. I hate it.

13- Mom is helping to care for her aged parents. She is an Angel.

14- Mom is tough skinned.

15- Mom loves board games and is fiercely competitive.

16- Mom loves to do any kind of brain teaser.. or Word Puzzle. She does the newspaper crosswords every single day.

17- Mom loves the Ocean.. and has swam with all sorts of sea life including Sharks and Seals.

18- La Jolla Cove and La Jolla Shores have always been family Favorites.

19- I have always loved my Mom's tastes in Music. I remember LOVING to look through all of her records when I was young. She and my Father taught us to love a great variety of music.

20- Mom loves a good action movie.

21- Mom also loves a good mystery.

22- I have always thought my Mom was beautiful.. even when she didn't.

23- My Mom has a wonderful way of unconditionally loving others.

24- Mom is a hard worker.. and always gives 110% to any task.

25- Mom is an excellent Mother. She made me desire to be a Stay at Home Mom -- because of the Love and compassion I felt from her. She went to work outside of the home when I was in the 9th grade.. and I remember feeling very sad. I always loved her home.

26- Mom can play the Organ and Piano.. and is an excellent Singer.

27- Mom gave up her life here in the states... and left a couple of children behind to Serve the Lord in the Land of Russia with my Dad.. as Mission Presidents between 1997-2000. She then became a Mother to many hundreds of Missionaries.

28- My Mother didn't NEED to learn Russian in the 3 years she was there.. but chose to.

29- Mom fed many Apostles of the church dinner while serving there.

30- Mom loved Russia -- right along with Dad.. and even more so-- the people there.

31- Mom and Dad were always the greatest examples of how spouses should treat each other.

32- Even though my parents had other friends... they always preferred to be with each other most.

33- Mom sacrificed a lot to make my Dad happy.

34- Mom learned to love and enjoy the things Dad loved. She always thought of him first.

35- Mom was a great Homemaker.

36- Mom was a good balance with Dad. She mellowed him and his OCD ways out a lot.

37- Mom and Dad's song is "Surfer Girl" by the Beach boys.
Dad was always beaming over his "California Girl."

39- Mom LOVES Disneyland... and I always loved that she and my Dad loved going on rides with us to Lagoon and etc. They were and have always been adventurous and fun parents.

40- Mom is very Honest. She is a great example.

41- Mom had six children.. and she made time for each of us.

42- Mom loves to be a Mother.

43- Mom loves her Siblings. They are all very close... and love and respect each other much.

44- Mom can sew well... and when I was little.. she made me Barbie clothes, blankets, and clothing.

45- Mom can be a friend to anyone and everyone. She is very easy going and kind.

46- Mom loves British Shows.

47- Mom is beautiful on the inside... and on the outside.

48- Mom is a problem Solver.

49- Mom loves her Heritage.. and learning about her Ancestors.

50- Mom is a good artist.

51- Mom is a wonderful Grandmother.

52- Mom was there for all three of my children's births.

53- Mom will do anything for her family.

54- If we are stumped on a Homework problem.. we don't use Google.. we call Mom.

55- Mom has all of us over for Dinner once a Month. It's crazy... but fun.

56- Mom went through my Dad's illness with much Grace.

57- Mom was a Super Woman during Dad's last months. Waiting on him.. making decisions... organizing his medications.. keeping him calm and as happy as possible.. and giving him her all.

58- Mom went through the Greatest Trial-- so far in her life... and is a great example.

59- Mom is learning to live a New Life without her favorite person here anymore. Even though I can see how much it hurts her.. every time we are together.... she in still moving forward with Faith.

60- My Mom and Dad were Sealed for time and All Eternity in the Temple. This makes it possible for all of us to be together again one day... and next to her giving me life... it is the second greatest gift that she gave me. Loving my Father... Making and keeping the marriage covenants they made in the Temple.. and blessing all of us children with their Righteous choices and example.

I am forever Grateful.

********

Today I am Grateful for:

A Happy Weekend.

Helping friends Organize their homes... and seeing them joyful and happy about the changes

600 blog posts today!

Fast Sunday

De-junking. For me.. or anyone else.... It makes me HAPPY!!!

7 Habits of Highly Organized People

2012-01-05T08:00:00.000-08:00

I saw this on Pinterest.. and LOVED it.. so I added it to my first Organizing class of the year on Tuesday.

I am going to share it with you ( in case you haven't seen it ) and add a little explanation of my own thoughts under each one.

7 Habits of Highly Organized People

1- Write Everything Down

Whether it's your wall calender, ipad..planner or etc.. write down all important dates and facts ASAP, so you don't have to mentally store and remember it.

It's also a good idea to write a small cleaning or organizing project for each day of the month.

Be realistic with your time... and set cleaning and organizing goals that are attainable.

It's better to do something small-- than nothing at all!

2- Keep Flat Surfaces Clear

We all have a place where we "pile" stuff.

If you can try and tackle it every day -- it won't be so problematic.

I try to get the mail.. and sort it before I even get into the house to prevent Pile up.

I try and go through the kids school papers every night.

3- Find a Place for Everything.

I don't buy anything in a store unless I know where I am going to put it.

For all of the little things that I "find" that are a piece of something that has broken off of something.. and I know I will regret if I toss... I have a "lost and found" box.

After one year if I have not needed that part.. it gets tossed.

Life is much more simple for me... when my kids can put anything away where it goes.

Even my 4 year old.

Order is bliss.

4- Never Leave a Room Empty Handed

If you can make a habit of this... it is remarkable at how fast your house can clean up.

When someone is heading downstairs.. I always have them carry things down... and vice versa.

Have your children "help" put away their own things they pulled out.

5- File, Don't Pile

If you REALLY love a handout you received from church.. file it right when you get in the door.

Because paper is THE MOST problematic thing to enter your home.. make sure that if you are filing it.. you REALLY want it.

Find a way to keep Work papers and school work organized.

6- Purge and De clutter Often

Throw out all broken items in the garbage weekly.

Make it a rule of: "One thing in.. and One thing out"

I have a DI ( thrift store ) run almost weekly in my home.

If you can stay on top of things... it makes it less overwhelming throughout the year.

If it's something that is valuable... but you don't need it in your life.. and need some money.. sell it on craigs list, ebay.. or a consignment store.

7- Make a Plan.

With each task...

Consult

Sort

Purge

Clean

Organize

Don't buy storage containers until after you have reached the cleaning stage.

Measure spaces for the accurate bins /baskets

Make sure they are functional

***********************

Functional is my new favorite word in Organizing.

Too many times I see how people are storing things... and it is not Functional.

They are frustrated that it isn't working.. and I feel frustrated for you.

While I adore Pinterest.... just like everything else on the Internet.. be careful what you "pin" to your boards. I have seen many "pins" that are not Functional ways in organizing.. and friends have pinned them to their boards. I want to yell " Nooooo!!! Don't do it! " but.. I am nice.. and don't.

There are also MANY great ideas to use.

When you see ideas.. and are creating storage for your "things".. make sure it will be something that will be easy to put away... and easy to retrieve.

It's that Simple.

Because the whole reason for Organization... is to Simplify our lives.

Today I am Grateful for:

A good nights sleep

Order

Simplifying

Date night tonight

Helping friends in their homes

Life... Resolutions and Goals

2012-01-03T10:30:00.000-08:00

I always loved playing the Game of "life" when I was little.

We LOVE games in our family... and this is a game that we do not currently own.. so Christmas was a good excuse to buy it.

Over Christmas break.. we opened it up to play -- and I was amazed at how much it had changed!

This game that I played when I was little-- now took us 3 hours to play -- trying to understand all of the new ways and rules. Crazy! -- But now that we had the hang of it... we decided to play it again last night for Family Home Evening.

We all had a good time... and it surprisingly taught my kids a little more about money and expenses.

In the games we have played... I always have a poor paying job... and hardly any money.. but yet I still want the Victorian house for $500.000.

Sounds like me eh?

After the game... we talked as a family about how the game is similar to real life... and how it's also not so similar to real life.

The kids were quite amazed to hear what our house cost ( compared to those on the board ) and even to hear what Dad's Salary was per month.

It's amazing how some things become "teaching tools" even when you don't plan it.

The kids were filled with questions.

********

As I got ready for bed last night...I started thinking about how grateful I was that my life doesn't consist of what I roll or spin. I am SUCH an unlucky girl... I would be in trouble.

One reason I won't ever gamble.

I am grateful that I can choose my own career... and car... and goals.

And like the board game... I move along and sometimes "luck" is not on my side...and I have to "pay out" with money or time.... but I can get through it.

As Chad and I were in bed talking about Life and the New Year...I asked him what his New Years Goals would be.

Almost everything on his list would be the same as mine.

Not so surprising.

********

I reviewed last years goals I had posted on my blog --and was pleasantly surprised that I had accomplished all but one.

It made me happy.

I can do this again. I can!!

So what are my main goals for 2012?

1- Get out of Debt

Chad and I used to follow Dave Ramsey so well.

And then we lost our job 3 times.. and we are still trying to catch up.

2- Read the Book of Mormon as a Family

This may sound easy for some of you...

but it is hard to stay on task with this -- for us all together daily.

This year... we are determined to do it.

3- Exercise 6 days a week

I NEED TO DO THIS.

At the beginning of last year... I was eating healthy.. exercising.. and doing physical therapy for my back.. and I felt FABULOUS. I lost 30 pounds.

Then... Dad got sick.. and I had to forget myself.

I haven't exercised much since Dad's death.

Kinda makes me ill.. and my body feels like an old Woman's.

I HAVE to do this. HAVE to for my Spine.

4- Eat less Meat

I have a husband that LOVES his Meat and potatoes.. but this year I am striving to feed my family well -- by eating more grains and beans and Vegetables and to eat meat more sparingly.

We are going to strive for Meat only 2-3 times a 7 day week.

This may sound like a lot.. but it's a huge cut back after our usual 7 days of Meat.

5- Be more Charitable

In December.. I tried to do some kind of Service each day.

It felt so good.

So... I am going to go bigger -- and try for this daily this year.

I hope to be closer to the spirit.. as others have for me.

I can do this!

I can! I can! I can!

* If you have a favorite meatless dish recipe .... please send it my way!*

Thanks!!!

Today I am Grateful for:

Organizing Season! Makes me happy!

Candy Cane Hot Cocoa = Love

Dinner with Mom & Grandpa and Grandma Tenney

Genuine Hugs

Monica and her family stopping by yesterday

Gratitude #35 -- End of Year Gratitude

2011-12-31T12:30:00.000-08:00

I can't end the year without taking some time to express some Gratitude.

While this has been by far.. the hardest year of my life... it has been FULL of numerous blessings... and I have a very full and Thankful heart as I sit and think about the blessings that have come to pass in 2011.

These are in no particular order of importance... just what comes to my mind first.

(1)

I am Grateful I was able to Serve my Father.

This is without a doubt.. the greatest blessing that came to my life this past year.

To sit by his side and learn from him.

To feel his spirit

To Tend to his needs

To see him smile as I walked in the room.. waiting for me to read Great Grandma Mary's history to him each day.

To lay by him...to hold his hand and tell him how much I love him.

This whole experience changed me. Refined me.

I went through some of the hardest times I can think of.. watching someone I love so very much.. suffer in pain. I went into Chemotherapy sessions and hospitals.. ( which are VERY hard for a hypochondriac and a germaphobe. )

I was a Nurse of sorts.

And the experience has made me less "Anal" about things.

I have learned to relax more.

I have learned that I can do more than I thought I was capable of.

I will never forget my precious time with Dad. Ever.

(2)

I am Grateful for Answered Prayers and Miracles.

While our prayers were not answered for our Father to be healed... our Father in Heaven blessed us in more ways than I can express.

We received a witness that he was needed on the other side.

Cathy and baby Cumorah were healed.

Jeff made it to Utah.. not only to see my Father before he passed... but to be able to serve him as a Nurse and Doctor as well. To spend some time with him.

Dad was healed enough to give every single one of us a blessing..even little Cumorah.

Dad was able to hold Cumorah.

All of us were able to be with Dad as he passed away.

I will never forget the most sacred and spiritual experiences we all had together -- the weekend before my Fathers passing. The holiness and peace that surrounded us we will never forget.

It was as if.. we were in the Temple. It was that holy.

(3)

I am Grateful for Friends and Family

I feel a greater love than I ever have experienced before with the relationships I have with people now. Words can't express the "deep" love and concern I feel for others.

I feel fortunate to be surrounded by so many Angels.. whom have been close to the spirit.. and helped me and my family in more ways than I even knew we needed help with.

I feel fortunate to have had many heartfelt talks.

To have cried with many of you.

I have been blessed by comforting words through the Internet -- by comments on my blog.. and e-mails.. and letters in the mail.

Friends have cooked many meals and babysat for me so I could tend to Dad.

Friends have prayed for our family... cried with us... and given us hope and strength.

We have felt all of the prayers.

We are... and will always be abundantly grateful.

(4)

I am Grateful for my Husband Chad.

I love Chad more now than I ever thought possible.

He has served my Father, his parents, and my siblings this whole year.

He never complains.

He always shows me love.. and tells me how much he loves me.

He has many of my Dear Fathers qualities... and I thank the Lord that I was blessed enough to have such a man in my life. Words cannot express my love for him.

(5)

I am Grateful for a Loving Heavenly Father

He loves each of us.

He has given me strength when I have needed to stand.

He has shown me more tender mercies and blessings than I can count.

He is helping me and my Mother and Siblings along this Grieving process.

Everything good comes from him.

I bear witness that he is VERY real. He knows each of us.. and desires for us to be happy.

He is our Father... and he will never abandon us.

****************

Today I am Grateful for:

A New Year

My Children

Humility

Tender Mercies

That there is ALWAYS, ALWAYS much to be Thankful for.

Christmas Presents Galore.....

2011-12-29T12:00:00.000-08:00

Some of our favorite things this Christmas.....

The kids spoiled their Mommy!

They were just as excited for me to open their gifts.. as they were to open up their own.

Mary Caroline gave me this beautiful plate... and I picked out the candlesticks for Chad to give to me. hee-hee

I more than LOVE this church that my friend Emma gave me.

It is so charming and beautiful.

I wish they still made churches these days -- as they did in days of old.

My Mom gave me an old copy of "Jane Eyre" -- just as I hoped for.

It even smells like an old book store... and has yellowing pages.

Squuuuuueeeeeee!!!!!

My brother Chris drew my name for Christmas... and gave me this old chair that used to belong to his wife's Great Grandmother.

What a treasure indeed! ~ And he also gifted me with a new Disney pin.

Happiness!!!!

Santa actually remembered to bring a gift to the kitties this year... and they were in Heaven Christmas morning with all of the new toys, and the extra wrapping paper and ribbon laying around.

I LOVE Surprising my Family!!!

My amazingly talented friend Deanne was kind enough to share her talents with me once again and made a denim quilt for each of my children. Chad knew about the gifts... but I was sneaky.. and had one made for him as well.

The blankets have been one of the most favorite gifts this year!!

Tenney was oh so happy that Santa brought her Kanani ( The American Girl of the year ) for Christmas. I love that she still wants to play with dolls.. since she is growing up much too fast for my liking.

She also enjoyed getting Epic Mickey for the Wii... and clothes.

Grandma Wright spoiled Tenney with a whole box of Nancy Drew books.

Tenney's favorite movie is Nancy Drew.. and she can't get enough of the mysteries...

Mary Caroline got her first American Girl doll.. Julie!

She is thrilled to have her own that Tenney isn't in charge of.... and also enjoyed getting a little baby doll set from Grandma Hendrickson and Toy Story wii from Santa.

Christian is swimming in Lego's this Christmas.

Lots and Lots of Lego's.

He also enjoyed getting a mini remote control Helicopter like his Dad... and a new Football.

Chad received 4 new Westerns. He loves old Cowboy movies.

He is in love.

He also enjoyed New Clothes and money from both of our parents.

We hope to get to Disneyland this year... so we are saving!

My Mom gifted Chad with " Sevier Stake Memories " an old book that has many pictures of Chad's Families History.

We asked my Dad to look for this book about 5 years ago.. and he found it.

We love old books filled with our Ancestors! ♥

***************

The greatest surprise of Christmas... came from my Chad.

He was so sneaky... I opened the present in such shock... I couldn't even say anything.

I just sat and cried.

Chad snuck and edited the first 2 years of my blog and printed them out into 2 journals.

This was a huge task.. since I had some old posts that were video -- that needed to be deleted and add pictures in it's place. I have wanted to do this forever... but life just doesn't slow down enough for me to do things like this...

It is amazing!

I still can't believe he pulled this off.

Is there a word better than awesome?

Because that's what it is.

I have been going through the books... and more than ever I feel grateful that I have journal ed my life through blogging for the last 4 years.

Even the silly "tagged" posts that I used to do all of the time tell all about me.

I wish I had books like this on everyone I love... and have loved.

It made me grateful that I have blogged.

It made me realize that I need to blog for me... and tell things as I would like... and not care about what others think of me.

I have been "extra" careful the past 2 years about the way I say things.. and normally before.. I wouldn't have wanted to document what my kids and I received for Christmas... because I worry to much about what others will think... but after this Christmas gift... I now realize that I need to do what I want to... and say what I want to.

The end.

Everyone starts a blog for different reasons.. but my reason is to journal.

My blog has never been about advertising.. or getting "numbers" to my site.

I love that I have made friends while doing it.. and I treasure my friendships.

Each time we have been asked to advertise or add buttons... Chad and I have discussed it.. and decided on the "no."

I like to be and stay --more personal.

******

Today I am Grateful for:

My blog friends that have been with me since I started back in 2008. You have a special place in my heart -- sticking through these years with me... and commenting.... becoming my friends.

Christmas decorations are down. It's a weird year. I wasn't feeling it.

My brother Chris for taking down the Christmas lights yesterday.

Having my children home with me this week. I love my kids with me.

Giving and Receiving

Little Liam's Heart Surgery went well.

Attending the Funeral for Aunt Vivian this morning.

Lots of tears... and a very sacred experience.

The sad part of Christmas 2011

2011-12-27T19:00:00.000-08:00

Are you lost or Incomplete?

Do you feel like a puzzle, you can't find your missing piece?

- Coldplay

I have always believed in being real.

I have an Allergy to Fake people... and while I try to be honest in all that I say and do.. I have noticed that there have been more than a few times this year that I have had to put on a fake smile.. and try to act cheerful.. even though it's not how I TRULY feel inside.

I have been Fake -- many a times.

I made it through Thanksgiving really well... so I thought surely I could handle Christmas too.

I believe I was a little arrogant.

There has been happiness during this Christmas Season.. but there has also been a great heavy-ness as well.

I miss my Dad.

A lot.

Today.. I am going to share some of my Sad thoughts... and tomorrow.. some joy.

****

I often long to be with my Mom and siblings.. then, when we do get together... it hurts.... because it is evident that we are missing one of our favorite people.

Some people have asked me " Why don't you pretend that your Dad is just in Russia again?"

Um... it's VERY much not the same. I could CALL and talk to Dad in Russia.

There was a blessing of comfort.. because my family was not with me.

Some people when grieving -- may do things like this... but I am still struggling to figure out how to make a "new life" without Dad here. -- In a real way. No falsies.

It's soooo hard.

****

My Sister in laws Danielle and Lora made each of us a DVD with some video they took of Dad sharing some thoughts about his life, family and bearing testimony.. and then had many pictures from his life and funeral.

Last night... I had a "time out" and made myself some alone time just to see Dad and cry.

It was very therapeutic... and I am grateful to them for such a kind gift.

After the video.. I was in the Kitchen cleaning up.. and Chad came in with a Hug and an

" I love you. "

It was one of those moments that I felt an "overwhelming" sense of gratitude for Chad... that he is much like my Father with his many talents... and generous ways.

I felt grateful that I chose to be his Eternal companian.. as we have been through sooo much together... and have become closer and more in love with each other through our trials.

Before Chad left the room... he stopped and said to me: " I really miss him too."

I don't know why that brought me comfort... but it did.

I am grateful that Chad and my Dad had a great relationship.

Very grateful.

*******

I woke up to an excited Tenney Christmas morning begging to go out and see what Santa brought the Family. As I forced myself to wake up... the first thing I saw was the Chandelier my Dad gave me last year hanging over my bed.

If you have not seen that post.. you can read the story here.

I felt great warmth.

This is why I am sentimental over "things."

*****

My Dad LOVED Christmas.

Maybe not as much as his Birthday or Fathers Day.. but nevertheless.. he loved to Give... and he loved to receive... and I wish we could bottle the passion, excitement and happiness that oozed from him.

I missed him so much this Christmas.

On Christmas afternoon... our little family headed over to the cemetery to pay respects to Dad.

It was the first time we had all been there together since they had put the headstone in.

It was extra sad seeing it.

Is your name on a headstone?

Never thought this would happen so early in my life.

As I stood there... the thought came to me... that even though his headstone is BEAUTIFUL and perfect... I wished there was some sort of plaque expressing the greatness of the man that was buried here.

But no. Just simple and plain.

Nothing extraordinary... even though he was.

There has been much sadness surrounding this holiday.

Worry about baby Liam Wampler.

My Dad's Aunt Vivian passing away Christmas Eve.

Lots of sickness and hospital stays.

Our first Christmas without Dad

But.... with all of the sad...

This has caused their to be more focus on the TRUE meaning of Christmas.

The Savior.

And for this... I feel humbled and grateful.

Today I am Grateful for:

Pure Grieving. The greater the heartache.. the greater I have loved.

Songs on the radio that can express some of what I can't say

Happy Children

Friends and Families love and support through mourning/grieving

Faith that I will see my Dad again one day

Tis the Season to be Emotional....

2011-12-22T09:30:00.000-08:00

This year I have tried EXTRA hard to be more Joyful and happy during this season.

I like to make lists.

I like to have a plan.

I like to be prepared.. and I hoped to keep the week before Christmas stress free and relax with my family and enjoy the season the best we could..without Dad.

But sometimes... all plans fail.. and everything doesn't happen the way you want it too.

And then if you are like me.. you have a pity party.

*************

Saturday was our family testimony meeting.. and it was fabulous.

Cathy was once again.. super generous and thoughtful.. and presented an ornament to all of us.

It is for sure my favorite ornament.

We all gathered together...

Ate lots of goodies...opened a present--shared testimonies and cried much.

We went through a whole box of tissues.. and I am sure most of it was just me.

I felt Dad with us once during the night... and it made the night almost perfect.

**************

Since Saturday..... it has been a LONG week.

Chad stated last night that it has felt like the LONGEST week ever. Without getting into detail.. and sharing things on the Internet.. that I cannot.. I will just say.. that things have been very, very hard.

2 close family members were in the ER Saturday/ Sunday.

To add to that....My Uncle is in Intensive care... and Chad's Grandmother is in the Hospital with Pneumonia.

I thought THESE things were ENOUGH to stress about.. but no.

I received a call Monday morning -- with not so happy news that led me to do some "deep cleaning" of all of my toys, dress up, and washing almost every pillow and blanket in the house.

I also spent a great deal of time on the Internet googling about something I had no idea about...and calling my Doctor to answer questions I had.

I used an entire bottle of Tide ( laundry detergent )

When Mary Caroline woke up Tuesday -- throwing up.. this is when I had my largest pity party.

I stayed in bed.

Seriously?? What else???

I started to think that the "count down" to Christmas was going to be filled with sadness, worry, heartache, gloom and never ending laundry each day.

I didn't do my make-up.. get dressed... or make food for 3 days.

Instead...Mary and I watched over 20 Christmas movies.

***************

TENDER MERCIES.

My friend Heather called me Tuesday morning and told me she had made some Sugar Cookies.. and wanted to bring some by. I seriously couldn't believe my ears. Sugar cookies + happy news???

I told her of the "private" situations that had been occurring in our life.... and told her if she did come out to my home... to just leave the cookies and run.

I was afraid if she stayed.. she might catch our "bad luck."

A few hours after our chat... the door knocked and Heather was not only bearing Sugar Cookie gifts... but a brand new bottle of Tide Detergent.

I wept.

Heather cried.

I hugged my friend and thanked her much for being "in tune" all of the time.

And I sat down and ate a cookie.. and it never tasted so good.

I wonder if my Dad had something to do with this service.

The thought crossed my mind.

I am not sure.. but I am so grateful for Heathers heart that is always willing to serve.

I will never forget it.

I almost hated to open up the bottle... because it was so special.

************

Wednesday was the first day I got dressed and headed out of my home.

It felt good to be out in the sunshine... and off delivering the last of my gifts.

I stopped by my friend Emma's home.. and her mom (my friend) Wendy is there visiting from Canada for the holidays.

Wendy and I sat and had a little heart to heart.

We cried... and It felt good to hug her after all of the times we have written ((hugs)) to each other on our blogs.

Wendy lost her son a little over a year ago.. and we sat and cried together over our heartache.

I am Grateful for friends that have come into my life through blogging.

I truly believe it is for more reasons that we "have found each other " than we even realize.

Some of us just don't know why Yet.

After Wendy's... I took another gift to my friend Aimee's house.

She lost her Mother in September... and I wanted to deliver the book and a hug to her.

There was no answer.. so I left the book.

I headed to Kohl's.. to buy the last present that I needed.. and who did I happen to see there?

Aimee.

What are the chances. Seriously.

I hugged her... and told her of the book I left.. and we went on our way.

I got in the car.. and realized that -- I was just given a tender mercy.

I was able to hug her like I wanted to.

*************

As I laid in bed last night... I was thinking all about this very hard year. How much I have learned. How much closer I feel to my Savior.. How much I have had to be "taught" and humbled... and even though we have been through very dark days... there have also been NUMEROUS miracles and Tender Mercies.

Maybe I needed these trials during this week to keep our family focused on what this season is truly celebrated for...

The Savior. The light of the World.

Today I am Grateful for:

Our dear friends that brought over breakfast for Christmas morning.

Leah's phone call last night.

Happy Mail

Tender Mercies

Emma in Norway.

Keeping up on Traditions....

2011-12-16T08:00:00.000-08:00

I love this time of year!!

I love gathering with family and friends often...

Happy mail everyday...

Baked treats...

Neighbor gifts...

And of course ....Traditions.

One of my children's favorite Christmas traditions is reading a different Christmas book each night to the kids.

We have so many books in our house.. I seriously could run my own mini library.

Kinda funny for a gal who doesn't LOVE to read often huh??

Anyways... the first 8 days.. the reading was going great!

The kids love it so much.. I was bribing them to " Hurry and get ready for bed.. so we could read."

And they would hurry.

Well... this last week.. with all of the busyness... and late nights.. some of those days were missed.. and not only did the kids miss them... but I missed them as well.

Soo.. last night.. I made up for it.. and we read a book for all of the days missed.

I am not sure who loved it more... the kids or I.

Almost all of my books are like new... and I buy them at the Thrift store.. so if you like this tradition.. it's easy to do! ~ And it will probably be one of your children's favorites too...

Another Tradition we have had is letting the children each buy a new ornament for the year.

We went shopping on Wednesday night.. and the kids had a harder time picking one out this year.. than previous years. By the time we checked out... I was wondering if I really wanted to keep this tradition up. It was a great reminder to why I never take all of my children shopping together.

It was maddening.

Maybe as they get older.. it will be better??

Happy children with their new 2011 ornaments...

Mary has a "Doodlebug" ( she LOVES to doodle and draw so it fits! )

Tenney has a Cat ( of course ) hanging from a wreath

Christian has a marshmallow man fishing.

Christmas cards are mailed.

After today.. all neighbor gifts will be passed out.

I feel much more calm having those things finished.

Now.. onto 2 more traditions.

Saturday night is our family "testimony meeting" here at my house.

It's going to be our first without Dad physically here... but I can bet that Dad WILL be there with us.. as we express our hearts to the Lord.

I look forward to it.

And... remember my other tradition I do with the letters to my children?

After this year.. I have never felt it to be more important.

Take time for those you love.

THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON I AM GRATEFUL FOR:

Love

A Testimony of God the Father and his Son Jesus Christ

Family and Friends

Forgiveness

Kindness

Happy Weekend Everyone!

Our Halls are Decked!!

2011-12-14T09:30:00.000-08:00

Deck the Halls with Roses, white and Pink.....

Fa la la la la la. la la la la

Of course the Christmas picture of my Dad and I at Christmas when I was little--- sits front and center this year. I have loved placing old photos from long ago Christmases throughout my house..

Remember the old wire tree I found at DI a few years ago?

This year I finally "blinged" it up with old broken lamp shade crystals and chandelier pieces.

Tenney begged to have it in her room.. so there it sits in all it's beauty.

.... And yes... I do have Christmas red in my house as well.

It's dressed in the Kitchen.

This Vintage Snowman and Santa sat in the windows of my South Jordan Canal Road home when I was a child. I love them so much.. and they bring back happy memories.

Chad's parents had these Nativity boxes made for us one year. We love the boxes and the "story" shared inside.. and look forward to reading it each year...

We love the "reminders" all around as to the true meaning of this blessed Holiday.

Today I am Grateful for:

The Amazing Dream I had about Dad last night. It woke me up with such a "force" that I decided to write it all down on a pad really quickly so I wouldn't forget things... and I did just that -- at 5:30 a.m. I then couldn't sleep as I laid there dissecting and pondering it.

I have decided to start a journal about the times I dream of Dad. There have only been 2 so far since his death.. but the have been profound. I have cried much this morning...and feel as though I have been given a great gift just in time for Christmas.....

Over the Weekend....

2011-12-12T20:30:00.000-08:00

We had ourselves a Break!!!

It was welcomed after much sickness in our home.

My friend Morgan was so kind to take the 3 kids Friday night and give us some alone and shopping time.

We started the evening off at McGrath's.. and we had a coupon for their Lobster Fest.

Once again.. I was in love with the seafood.

It seems like a tragedy that I have only had seafood twice since Dad's passing.

I need to be kinder to myself. :)

We then finished up some shopping.

Chad was SUCH a good sport.. as shopping, --especially in an Antique store is not exactly "relaxing" or "Fun" to him.. but I guess we both were craving a long overdue date night... and time alone together...so it was worth it.

It was a welcome break... as by Saturday night.. Chad started up with another Gall Bladder attack.

Boooo!

I HOPE we can make it to the New Year before it has to be removed! :(

**********

I have felt so much gratitude lately for so many people in my life.

I have a renewed appreciation for my good friends.

I feel like my Father in Heaven knew how much I would need people..especially this past year-- and he blessed me greatly.

My heart is full this holiday season.

If only I had the time to write each person that I love --- and tell them how much they have truly helped me and brought me comfort this past year.

*********

Saturday night I was finishing up my Gospel Doctrine lesson ( Sunday School ) and I came across something that I had no clue about. I was sooo nervous to teach about it.. when I had never heard anything about it. What if I get weird feedback and and comments??

I worry a lot with this as a Gospel Doctrine teacher...

I panicked and went to call my Dad ( like I used to often and get his opinion and thoughts )

and then I felt so foolish that it has been almost 6 months.. and I still forgot that he isn't there.

I am a creature of habit.

I felt sad.. and then called my brother Tim.

I even called him late.. and he was kind and gave me his thoughts.

Thank goodness for family.

It made me realize how very much I am still-- in great "shock" 5 months afterwards.

I am grateful Tim was there to help me.. and I didn't even have to address that part in the lesson that had me worried... because we didn't even get that far in the lesson in class. *Phew*

I taught my last New Testament class yesterday.. and felt sad as I have so enjoyed reviewing the Teachings and Life of Jesus Christ.

I do admit though... I look forward with great excitement to this upcoming year studying

the Book of Mormon.

**********

I love this Season!

Much Service is given and received...

Christmas cards ( happy Mail daily! )

Lots of Family and Friend Gatherings...

We have lots of Cocoa, Soups and Baked goods this month

It's the most wonderful time of the year!!

*********

Are you finished decking your halls?

Just in case you are not... I want to leave you with a little outside decorating tip:

If you like Glitter and sparkle like I do.. and you want your house to sparkle a little in the daytime.. just had some sunshine and "Shiny Christmas balls"

It adds sparkle to any wreath or garland.. and you save a little extra on electricity!

It's simple and beautiful!

Hope you all have a Happy week!

Today I am Grateful for:

Mint hot cocoa, Warm Pj's and Fuzzy slippers.

Health.

Morgan.. for your help this weekend. Very Grateful.

The Tenney family Christmas party last night. I love my Family!

The Temple. My peace sanctuary.

Family Pictures and Christmas Cards...

2011-12-09T08:00:00.000-08:00

The most wonderful time of the year!

Once again.. one of my favorite photographers Kris ( from KD Portraits ) took some amazing family photos for us this year.

I chose the location of "Wheeler farm" because of the old houses and Vintage look.

We had MANY great photos.. and it was hard to choose just 5... but this is what we decided on.

My favorite family

Tenney Marie = 10 going on 16

Handsome Christian....Proof that he CAN hold still.

Miss cutest Mary Caroline

I love my little family.. I love Christmas cards... and I am thrilled to finally be sending some out this weekend!

What I didn't love... creating them yesterday with Chad.

I am just too picky for my own good.

I pretty much "settled" on something and wasn't in LOVE with anything.

I guess I need to hire a skilled personal designer.

Why do I have to have such unique and expensive taste??

I need to plan MUCH earlier and better next year.

Remind me.

Just kidding.

If you want a Christmas Card... and have had an address change.. or do not normally comment.. message me your address at annban10@gmail.com.

Have a Happy Weekend!!

Today I am Grateful for:

Rest.

Cheesy Heartfelt Christmas movies

The school bus. My Gas tank, time and stress level have been much better!

The weekend. Even though plans fell through.. I am determined to make it great!

Kris ( KD Portraits ) for your talent and Photography/Editing Skills.....

Favorite Christmas Music of 2011

2011-12-07T08:00:00.000-08:00

What has been playing everyday at my house?

Mindy Gledhill's Winter Moon.

Although I love this CD much... if I try to put something else on to listen too...my 10 year old Tenney comes and puts it back onto this. I am not sure what I love more. The music.. or the fact that the song "Winter Moon" is the only one I have EVER heard my shy singing daughter sing from the top of her lungs.

I hope to record it somehow.. without her knowledge.. because I love her singing it that much.

If you don't own Mindy Gledhill's music.. what are you waiting for?

I received her album "Anchor" for Christmas last year.. and it is one of my favorite "must listen to " Cd's.

Mindy's music is always Happy, Pure, Joyful, and full of simplicity and sparkle.

I LOVE IT. I love everything she creates.

( Well.. maybe except for the video of Winter Moon with the Muppets. )

The other "favorite" Christmas album of the year goes to:

" A very She & Him Christmas."

My cousin Megan told me that it was her favorite of the year.. so I ran and purchased a copy without even listening to a single song. ( I trust Megan.) -- And of course I was not disappointed.

I love Zooey Deschanel.

I love her sister Emily that I watch on the TV show "Bones."

I loved Zooey on the movie "Elf" and this album did not disappoint.

I love the Vintage feel to it... and I am starting to think that between Mindy Gledhill.. Matt and Zooey and my old " Christmas with Gisele " I pretty much prefer a Vintage Christmas sound.

With the exception of Josh Groban and The Mormon Tabernacle Choir of course....

What else has filled me with JOY this Christmas season??

Of course it would be the "Killers" and of course I am obsessed.. and proud of it.

The Killers " Cowboy Christmas Ball " is hilarious.

Just like the other 7 Killers Christmas songs.. it is filled with silly-ness and joy.

And isn't the season supposed to be Jolly??

When I watched the video.. I smiled and laughed the whole way through seeing my Favorite Brandon pretending to be a Cowboy.. and watching them of course mix " Cowboys and Aliens."

I love that this Song is Happy.

I love Brandon's Jacket

I love that all proceeds go to help RED

I love that they don't mind being silly one bit

I love the Robot Break Dancing

I love that they made this song from the Lyrics of a 1890 poem of the same name.

I just LOVE the KILLERS and BRANDON FLOWERS!!!!!

The End.

What is your Favorite Christmas Album of 2011??

Today I am Grateful for:

Friends that share there talents with me.

Music that touches my soul.

My Grandpa and Grandma Tenney

Christmas goodies

Those that have the gift of Music and share it.

Welcome December & Random Thoughts

2011-12-06T08:30:00.000-08:00

Welcome December.....

Where the heck have I been???

Probably like most of you.... BUSY.

Things have been going well here.

Dad's Birthday was a happy day... and I have felt surprisingly more comfort than I thought I would during the season so far.

We had a crab fest for dinner.. and I decided if food is in Heaven.. crab is there.

I ended the evening at the Temple.. and the day felt good.

********************

THOUGHTS AND HAPPENINGS THIS PAST WEEK

1- I am almost finished Christmas shopping... and it is thrilling.

I think I am more excited this year for my kids.. than past years.

***

2- I WONDER all of the time why I feel extra comfort with Dad lately?

Is it from prayers?

Has he been with me more?

I wonder how much Dad is with us... as I am sure he's busy!

***

3- Dad gets a Headstone today. I am going to check it out.

I went to the cemetery for his birthday last week.. and had a hard time finding the grave... and then had an emergency.. and couldn't stay long. Let me just say that NOT having a porta-potty in a cemetery is a HUGE oversight.

I thought about writing Taylorsville City to tell them of this problem.

SERIOUSLY.. when it is an EMERGENCY.. where do you go?

Not on the ground.. as isn't it holy?

I wish I could blog this whole story.. but I will spare you with the TMI details.. but it is funny.

It added some humor to the day.

***

4- I finished Decorating for Christmas.. and it took me 8 days to decorate.

NOT because I have too much to put out.. but because I had so much going on.. I had to keep putting it aside.

-- That in itself has made me stressed... because of the lack of order in those 8 days.

I told Chad " I love decorating.. but hate the "in between mess."

I could try to find a solution.. but it's probably good for my OCD.

***

5- Chad had a TERRIBLE Gall Bladder attack that had him sick for 2 days.

I have a feeling that there will be a Surgery to ring in the new year...

***

6- Because I am married to a Computer Programmer.. I have a whole entire house full of wires, computers.. and server box things I have no idea how to run. -- So without trying to sound techno-savvy.. I will just say that we have some cool program thing called "Play On" that is what I would think to be similar to Netflix. It is filled with old shows I used to love and adore.

Tenney and the kids can't get enough of Bewitched.. and I am all about the Love Boat.

Remember this show? Yes.. I like me some cheese.. and I enjoy these old shows from the 80's.

Who doesn't want to relax and watch people go on a cruise and come back with their problems solved? haha.. Chad and I make up commentary all through it.. and it's fun.

These old shows bring me comfort.

Maybe because they are from my childhood.. but they are definitely like comfort food.

It's funny that these were shows that some kids couldn't watch when we were younger --And now... how weird that they are the"clean" shows compared to what is out now...

***

7- Speaking of cheese... I also have had Chad record all of those "Hallmark ---made for TV Christmas shows" I get all wrapped up in their cheese.. and I admit.. I likey.

***

8- I don't have my Christmas cards made.. and I am stressing.

Next year I need to be ready by Thanksgiving. Noted.

***

9- Our last sheets ripped on our bed.. so I was able to use an "early" Christmas present before Christmas.

Am I a snob that I bought 800 thread count sheets? Chad and I sure love them. Does anyone else buy a high thread count that's willing to admit it? They are UH-MAZING.

***

10- My heart has been heavy this past week. My good friend Leah gave birth to a very premature sweet baby boy at only 25 weeks. Our entire family has been praying so much for them.. and it kills me that I can't be in Tennessee to hug Leah..and be there for her. Since Dad's death.. I have noticed that I seem to FEEL much deeper for people than I did before.

I love her.. and feel for her.... almost in a Sacred way.

If you can remember.. please keep Liam Wampler and the whole Wampler family in your prayers.

I KNOW firsthand the strength of prayers.

Today I am Grateful for:

A fireplace and furnace in my home to keep me warm in these FREEZING temps.

Yummy soups on the menu during these cold months

Lots of Holiday Gatherings planned

Comfort in multiple ways

The Christmas Season

63 years ago....

2011-11-29T07:30:00.000-08:00

My Daddy was born.

I will be honest... I have been kinda dreading this day to come.

My Dad LOVED and I mean LOVED his birthday and Fathers day.. so those days are always going to be harder to get through than most.

I have been doing really well lately.. and have had a plan to not be sad and sit in a pool of grief and misery today. I am choosing to not go there.

My Dad would want us all to celebrate and be happy.

So.. while I know it will be indeed a day filled with tears.. it will also be filled with Service and love.

I hope to be able to live this day as Dad would live it.

****************

Today I am Grateful for:

Waking up this morning to a greeting card from a dear friend.. and an e-mail from one of my Dad's missionaries.

I am so grateful for angelic friends that help me along this journey...

Miss Megan -- for her quick DI run last night.

You'll never know how much it meant to me.

For my Grandmother Melva that gave birth to my Daddy and 11 others whom I love.

Memories and Photographs

The Resurrection. Because of this... I will see my Father again!

****************

Happy things from the Weekend....

2011-11-28T08:30:00.000-08:00

I am grateful it's Monday.

I am grateful I made it through the past weekend with great strength.. energy.. and no sickness.

I was truly blessed... and I am Grateful.

Wednesday.. I decorated a wedding reception for a Darling girl Evelyn in my ward.

The reception was in the Provo library.. and since it is over 30 minutes from my home.. I had to be down there from 3pm until 11:00 pm. It was fun, stressful and exhausting.. and I am just so grateful for Chad.. and all of the loading and unloading.. and patience he has for all of my service and "projects."

For the wedding.. there wasn't a budget.. so I just used a ton of what I had around my house ( as she likes vintage stuff too ) and then I showed up and had to decorate with what was brought there... make good use from what was given to me.. and somehow put it all together.

It was a fun challenge!

Everyone seemed to have a good time.. and there was a lot of dancing! We were so tired by the end of the night... that after we loaded up the car to take everything home.. it was all I could do to drive the babysitter home. I left everything in the car... and went to bed.

We woke up Thursday morning ready again to tackle the day!! It was a beautiful day.. and so fun to prepare to have our family in my home for the first time on Thanksgiving!

We completely rearranged the living room and made room for 18 to sit. I needed to make room for close to 40.. and it was a joy.. knowing it would soon be filled with people I love!

I decorated... and used many of the flowers from the wedding the night before as center pieces. I wish I had enough china dishes to feed a lot of people.. but I don't.. so we had to make do with paper goods.

Chad and I tag teamed.. as always... and spent the morning decorating.. preparing food and making Mashed Potatoes for around 50.

And then family came and filled my home!

My cute Grandpa Tenney that is almost 90.. said to me as he was leaving " Thank you honey for sitting me at a place that I could look around and see everyone I love.. and see their smiling faces."

It was such a happy day.

I was surprised at the comfort I felt the whole weekend in spite of it being the first Thanksgiving without Dad.

We felt extra blessed that Jeff was there to be with us all through the meal without being called in to the hospital. He was worried since he was "on call" all weekend....

We also had the lovely "Cecily" ( Erin's friend from Australia ) with us. We love her... and her patience with us.. and our children that don't like to give her a moments peace.

I love each of my cousins... and family members so much.

Amanda and Alana brought us 2 different kinds of cheesecake from the cheesecake factory.. and we had fun sitting around talking, laughing.. and eating amazing food.

Happiness is seeing your kitchen like this and feeling joy instead of stress!

Knowing I am rich with family and amazing food makes me feel content..and happy!

Aunt Carolyn and Aunt Taffy made us plenty of Orange Rolls.. and I made sure to hide a plate in the fridge. I feel zero guilt for it too.

Happiness is having people feel comfortable enough to sleep in your home....♥

Happiness is Banana Grams after with the fam.

Happiness for the kiddos is a weekend of fun movies all gathered together in Mom's bed... and Mom letting you sleep in her bed until Dad gets home is bliss....

( In Memory of : Grandpa Wright, Grandma Wright, and Dad )

Happiness is our annual Wright family Christmas party that is always the Saturday after Thanksgiving. It is always fun to gather with my Wright cousins.. and celebrate the season!

Our family is so large.. even a church is almost too small for us now.

My Dad is the oldest of 12 children.. I am the second oldest of over 60 + grandchildren.. and they announced that we officially have 80 great grand children.. and more than 1/2 of the grandchildren have not started or finished having children. Our family is LARGE.

( And no polygamy here. haha :)

Everyone gets ONE present under the tree.. and it gets loaded with so many of us.....

We have always embraced our Swedish Heritage.. and dance around the Christmas tree as my Uncle Layne plays the piano and we all sing Christmas songs. You can see... dancing around the tree is almost impossible now... as pretty soon we may have to make 2 or 3 circles to all fit...

We had the happiest kiddos who got to play with cousins and open a present...

Happiness is seeing Uncle Layne so happy.

My Dad's twin brother and his wife have been called to be Mission Presidents

( Portuguese speaking. )

We feel great joy for them.. and the adventure that awaits.

I know Dad will be there assisting him. I just know it!

Today I am Grateful for:

Monday. A day to sit home and clean.. and be lazy if I want to.

Being surrounded by lots of amazing people.

Feeling truly happy and content this holiday weekend.

Christmas music and Decorations have begun!

Being able to Hug and cry with Kelly and Sherie's family this weekend.

Our hopes, Faith and Hearts are with you.

Happy Thanksgiving!

2011-11-24T08:00:00.001-08:00

Today I am preparing for 40 people to Gather in my home.

I am thrilled.

Thinking today of each of my family members

.. and each of my friends.

Thank you all for coming into my life. I wish you a Happy day and weekend.....

Today I am Grateful for:

God

Freedom

Religion

Friends

Family

Hug those around you and savor the moments today!

Scenes from the BD party!

2011-11-22T07:30:00.000-08:00

Part of the excitement of the movies.. is being with some of my favorite people!

Once again.. Edward arrived in time for the party! ~ And yes! Pom Poms!

I owe much to my friend Ali.. for coming Friday morning to help me finish them.

Love ya Ali!

Once again.. Heather made an AMAZING cake for all of us!

It was SUPER Yummy too!

And Miss Megan surprised me with these delicious cupcakes and some stuffed mushrooms

( not pictured )

And I brought out all of the old "creations" my sisters have made for the previous parties.

I love that my sisters come to the party and make fun things for us.. even though they don't share in our twilight love...

Monica drives 2 and 1/2 hours each way.. when she comes up for the party.. so it kinda becomes a "whole day" event.

We went to lunch.. did some shopping.. and then met these ladies for an early dinner.

I love these ladies! We had the funnest time.. and so many laughs!

We had just come out of the movie.. and I had everyone stop for a group picture...

Top to bottom

Heather P, Heather E, Megan, Ann, Monica, Shauna, Marion, Brenda, Amber and Melanie

As "picture happy" as I had been all day.. I got caught up in the fun and happiness of the night.. and there are no more pictures of us all back at my house. What was I thinking???

I wasn't.. I was enjoying myself too.

Happy things to remember about the night:

Ho Ho Ho

Michael Buble

Kim Kardashian

Mariah Carey

Charades

................... And of course Erin and Cathy brought another "creation."

Vampire Cake toppers to celebrate the Wedding.

Oh how I love Erin's and Cathy's artistic skills.

Today I am Grateful for:

Chad. So supportive and sweet to give me girlfriend time. I really scored with this man.

Family/Girlfriends. Love each one much.

The Twilight series.. so we have more reasons to celebrate together

Everyone made it home safely in the snow storm

Energy and prayer to get through the next 2 days...

Breaking Dawn Movie Review.....

2011-11-21T09:00:00.000-08:00

I have had many friends and family members ask me my thoughts on the movie.

As always.. I am going to give you my honest opinion.

If you want to know about content.. and overall thoughts.. scroll down to the bottom of the post.

If you have not seen the movie.. my review WILL have SPOILERS.. so come back and read it after you see it.

What did I think???

I LIKED it A LOT.

But did I LOVE it or think it was Fabulous?? No.

I do feel the need to explain myself a little here.

I LOVED these books. If you are new-ish here.. and didn't read all of my past twilight posts.. you should know.. I have never been a reader... and thanks to Stephenie Meyer.. I wanted to read!

Who would have ever thought I would love a "fantasy" series as much as I have?

I am not one to like this type of stuff.. but I believe it was the Romance that hooked me in hard.

As far as bringing the movies to the screen... of COURSE they are FUN.. and it's exciting.. but of COURSE it is not the books. Nothing can compare... and like I have said before.. the only movie that I feel that has ever been better than the books is the Notebook. ( no surprise there.. :)

For some reason... I always enter the theater believing that I am going to LOVE the movie more than ever.. and then I am let down a little.

This movie surprised me.

It was better than I expected... but had me thinking a lot too.

The whole weekend I WANTED to LOVE it and think it was FABULOUS.. so why couldn't I?

The 6 things that really bugged me:

(1)

The make-up and contacts.

PLEASE PEOPLE. My heck.

The Vampires make-up and contacts were so laughable it was distracting to me.

I know they are vampires. You can lay off the clown make up and laser beam contacts.

( Watch Vampire Diaries to see how to make a Vampire. )

(2)

The werewolf scene. I don't even have to tell you which scene it was.. because if you saw the movie.. you know.

I was EMBARRASSED. It was that bad.

We were ALL laughing so hard .. and it wasn't supposed to be funny.

Having the voice over on the wolves made it sound Transformer-ish.

I have heard many people say " That's the only way they could have done it. " Bull.

Call George Lucas... and he can show you how it is done.. or have the wolves transform back into human form to chat. Whoever thought this looked good should be fired.

(3)

This movie was initially rated R.. and I could tell.

When I first read Breaking Dawn.. I proclaimed that they could NEVER make this into a movie.

It would be too weird.. and it would be rated R.

In the last week I have been defending the movie.. and it's almost R rating.. assuring people that Stephenie Meyer was producing it.. and it would be good in her hands.

While I feel it could have been worse.. it was as close to R as you can get.

There was a side shot of her breast... and the Gore and images at the end were more than Disturbing.

I realize that I am more sheltered and sensitive to this kind of thing.. so for most of the world.. you will think it's very tame.. and I am weird for my sensitivity to it... but I can't recommend it to anyone.

And that sucks.

I had many women and young women come up to me in church yesterday and ask if they should see it.. and it was with a heavy heart that I said "no." I do not feel as though I can recommend it.

Makes me sad.

(4)

The lack of Romance.

I am all about the Romantic lines... the gushy stuff.. the connection.

I didn't feel it much. I think back to the honeymoon... and I feel like they were so worried about the sex scene being appropriate.. they forgot about focusing on the passion and love Bella and Edward had for each other. It killed me. I knew this would be hard to show.. because much of the book is people's "thoughts" -- but if I had never read the books.. I am not sure I would still understand what Bella is doing with Edward. Bella showed more emotion with Jacob.. than on her honeymoon.

I was waiting for the love, sweet lines from the book, and passion.

It just wasn't there.

(5)

The scene with Bella and Jacob Dancing at the reception.

Yes... it was happy to have this scene.. but they were a little TOO CLOSE for comfort.

A few times it looked as though Jacob was going to be kissing on her neck.. and I was like:
" Where is Edward?? Come get this dog off of your bride!!" Seriously!!

Again.. fail.

(6)

They shouldn't have made 2 movies. I know they want to milk as much money as they can out of this franchise.. but I felt robbed and frustrated. Everyone has their own opinion of this.. but the whole story truly could have been accomplished in one movie.. and could have been extra long. ( maybe 2 1/2 hours. ) I am sure I would have enjoyed it more.. because movies should end not so dark and depressing. I forgot all about the first half of the movie.. and felt like I watched a biography on Anorexia.

Over the weekend... I went back on my blog and read my old review on the book.

Most everything I adored about the book is all in the 2nd part. Would I be OK if they stopped the book where they did in the movie?? NO. I would have been MAD! Well.. let's just say.. that all weekend.. I had images of Kristen Stewart's gross - anorexic - emaciated body going through my mind. It was disturbing. It got so bad on Saturday.. I had to sit down and re-read the next chapter in the book after these scenes--just so I wouldn't feel so gross about what I just saw. It has haunted me... and even though we read about these things... seeing the blood drinking.. and staring at her grotesque body over and over and over was more than I wanted to see. I feel as though there was 45 minutes of them showing us how much this baby was killing her.

We get it.

*********************

Ok... so I don't leave you all on a grumpy complaining note.. I will share the things I loved about the story protrayed on the big screen.

Charlie. The scenes with Bella and her Dad were always teary to me. I love the relationship they had.. and wished it would have started the movie with Bella telling Charlie about the Engagement.

The acting.. the special effects and etc.. were all much better with this movie. As far as cheesy-ness goes... you can't ask me.. because I like me some cheese.

Just not over-kill like the wolf part.

I LOVED LOVED the Wedding. It was beautiful, funny and perfect. The wedding toasts and humor from Bella's friends was a perfect add in. I was enjoying myself much.

I liked the imprinting scene with Jacob and Renesmee. It didn't end up creepy looking like I thought it could be. I loved that Jacob could see what she would look like as a young woman. Brilliant call.

I loved the banter between Rosalie and Jacob. Wished there was more in it.. because I loved that part in the book.. but it was enough to know that they didn't care for each other.

LOVED the group discussing baby names.. and them not caring for of the name Renesmee.

Brilliant.

I liked seeing Stephenie Meyer attending the Wedding. It's just fun seeing her inside her story.

I loved that the movie stuck really close to the story in the book.

I wonder if it's because Stephenie Meyer is producing these last 2 movies herself??

I LOVED Bella's transformation into a Vampire.

When it showed her body becoming whole again. Seeing her hair and face regain color, the memories of her life flash before her eyes.. and the venom go through her filled me with excitement and hope.

And then it ended.

Boo!!!

We wait again.. for one more year.

***********************

Out of all of my friends I have discussed the movie with.. only about 6 out of about 15 felt like I did.

The rest of my friends LOVED it and thought it was FABULOUS and the BEST movie of them all.

This was only MY opinion.

I am sensitive to the content.. and would not advise any child under the age of 17 to see it.

If you go... let me know.. I would love to hear your thoughts!

Today I am Grateful for:

Normal Child Birth

Being Passionate. It's fun.

Stephenie Meyer for telling this story that I love.

Girlfriends that made the weekend the best.. full of lots of fun and laughter.

All of you that have been Positive and happy for me and my love of this stuff.. even if it isn't your cup of tea.

Happy Friday!!!!!

2011-11-18T06:30:00.000-08:00

I am up too early.

Lots of excitement today as I get to be with friends and family all day.

I get to eat and be merry.

I get to watch the 4th Twilight Movie Breaking Dawn (squeeee!)

And then we are all gathering at my house for a small party.

Speaking of parties.....

This was my first *attempt* to make a tissue pom pom. Epic Fail.

This is why I don't like to craft.

I thought about calling my neighbor and begging her to come and make them for me.. and then paying her... but no.. I tried and tried again.. and while some of the others look a little better than this.... I still have YET to perfect the tissue Pom Pom.

Tenney wants some to hang in her room... and lets just say.. they won't be ones I have made.

We have been cleaning up leaves all week.

I love having my home surrounded by large trees all year.. but they are a lot of work. We get more leaves than most of my neighbors because we are North of them all. It's a good thing I have lots of helpers.....

I found these AMAZING ornaments at Hobby Lobby. Hobby lobby's Christmas stuff is 50% off right now.. and while I was so *giddy* to get these ornaments for $1.99 each... there were only three left!!! SOOO sad!

If you live by a Hobby Lobby.. and they have many of these.... buy them up. I will pay you for them.

For real.

Hope you all have a Fabulous weekend!!

Love to each one of you!!

Today I am Grateful for:

The happy weekend!

Joy.

Simple Pleasures.

The Changing of Seasons.

Stephenie Meyer. You have brought many joys to my life.

Is it a Carrot or a ............

2011-11-16T07:30:00.000-08:00

In cleaning up the Harvest... what did we find??

A fat little Carrot that looked like it had a Bee-hind.

We all laughed and laughed about it. All night.

Seriously.... how disgusting is this??

No one could eat it.

It was too gross and funny.

It even has long carr-utt hairs.

(shutters)

I have a feeling we missed out big time on E-bay.

Today I am Grateful for:

Laughter. It's theraputic

A good nights sleep.

Happy Music

Happy Mail

Hugs

Count your many blessings.....

2011-11-15T07:30:00.000-08:00

My friend Camille gave a lesson in Relief Society at the beginning of the month on Gratitude.

I loved her lesson.. and asked her if I could borrow part of it for our Wright Family Home Evening last night. ( Thanks Camille! )

I decided to share part of it today -- here... because I think it's important to see that in almost any situation... or circumstance.. there can be something to be grateful for.

Someway to Count our many blessings.

****************************

I am thankful for the teenager who is not doing dishes, but is watching t.v., because it means that he or she is at home, and not on the streets.

I am thankful for the taxes I pay, because it means that I am employed.

For the mess to clean after a party, because it means I have been surrounded by friends.

For the clothes that fit a little too snug, because it means I have enough to eat.

For a lawn that needs mowing, windows that need cleaning and gutters that need fixing- because it means I have a home.

For the parking spot I find at the far end of the lot, because it means I am capable of walking and that I have been blessed with transportation.

For my heating bill, because it means I am warm.

For the lady behind me in church who sings off-key, because it means I can hear.

For the pile of laundry and ironing, because it means I have clothes to wear.

For weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day, because it means I have been capable of working hard.

For the alarm that goes off in the early morning hours, because it means I am alive.

***************************

I just want to remind you that if you have a floor in your house, you belong to the upper half of the world’s most prosperous people.

If you can read, have more than one pair of shoes, a change of underwear and can choose from two or more foods for your next meal, you belong in the top 10% of the world’s richest people.

If you have all of the following: a car, a computer, a microwave, and a refrigerator- you are among the most wealthy people the world has ever known throughout it’s entire history.

Today I am Grateful for:

Medicine. A Roof over my head. My washing machine and Dryer. When friends and family gather at my house. The Pioneer Woman's Apple Dumplings.

Monday Ramblings.....

2011-11-14T07:55:00.001-08:00

Things about Monday

I woke up to a big mess. I don't clean on Sundays.. so my house is not happy to wake up to.

I got up.. made my hot chocolate.. and sat down to read my morning paper ( blogs and Facebook )

I even read blogs that I haven't checked in a long time. I still can't comment on 1/3 of them.
I'm still reading and love you! But.. I do like Internet Explorer... and your blogs won't take me!

Mary is up. She wants some breakfast.. and wants me to turn on music. We have a dance party everyday. I have decided that 4 is my favorite age. They are potty trained... old enough to tell you how things are and talk your ear off.... and yet.. still little enough to follow you around everywhere.
Sometimes the "following around everywhere" is a nuisance.. but I still deep down adore it.

What will I do next year.. when she is in Kindergarten and I can use the bathroom by myself?

I spoke in church yesterday. In Sacrament Meeting.
When the Bishop called and asked me.. I thought "Don't people hear from me enough??" Since I teach Gospel Doctrine ( Sunday School class ) and bear my testimony often?
They still wanted me to speak. I did it.. and in 10 minutes. Whew.

Chad said... Well... at least you will be more relaxed up on the stand.. because you don't have to sit with the kids..
Um.... since when is it relaxing to sit on the stand and speak in church???
I will tell ya.... Never.

Last week... 3 people I know -- that are very dear to me.. were diagnosed with Cancer.
I hate Cancer.
It's always around.. and brings heartache and sadness to everyone.
If you are related to one of the people I speak of... our family is thinking of you.. and praying for you daily. ~ And I mean that.

I have a very busy and full week ahead of me.

I am grateful.

Today I am Grateful for:

Breaking Dawn in a few days... Party!
Friends.
Family.
Church.
The beginning of a new week.

Cat Tales at the H home

2011-11-11T08:30:00.000-08:00

Most people are either a "Cat" person or a "Dog" person.

I have found it more rare to love both.

It's no secret that I am a Cat person. Not a Dog lover at all.

( Please don't send me hate mail my Dog lover friends...)

We have had our Cat Mittens since 1996.

It's crazy that I have known my Cat longer than my husband.

Anyways...Mittens used to sleep with me ( back in my 20's.. ) and we had him de-clawed because he lived in the house.

He was my baby.

When I met Chad and we got married.. we took Mittens with us and he adjusted really well to our new home. It was quite the change! He needed to stay outside.

I worried about him.. ( because he was de-clawed ) but there was no need for worry.

He showed every animal in the "hood" who was boss.

Chad and I started our family... and each of the kids grew up loving and adoring Mittens.

Then we moved to our home now... which was just down the street.

It took a few days for him to adjust.. but he finally figured out we were staying permanantly.. and became the "King" here as well.

He protects our home much like a Dog.

He has answered to commands.

He fought the Pit Bull next door.. and sent the Dog running.. and pretty much owns us. Mittens knocks on the door when he wants treats and has even performed tricks in the past to get attention.

After we bought our home and gutted much of it.. the family before us had so many cats and dogs living inside.. when we tore out everything.. I couldn't even be in the house as they tore out the padding and carpet...it was so awful.. sick nasty bad. -- So I declared..

" NO animals in the house ever.. and that is a written commandment here."

Animals live outside.

In the last year... Poor mittens has gotten really skinny. I can feel and see his bones if you pet him down his back.. and I feel guilty and sad when I see him try to lay down carefully.

He is old.. and hurting.

He has been a great hunter for us.. keeping our home "Mouse free" but even his hunting days are coming to an end.

I don't know what to do.

I am torn whether to put him down.. or just let him suffer to the end.

It's hard.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

During the last 2 years.. we keep bringing other Cats to live with Mittens and help with the Mouse, Vole, rat and snake hunting.. but also be love able and cuddly friends to the kids.

Bandit came.

Mittens hated Bandit. Then Mittens tolerated Bandit. Then Mittens loved Bandit.

Then one day Bandit disappeared.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Last May... I was driving home after taking care of Dad.

The kids were with me.. and we saw a HUGE sign that said "Free Kittens."

Tenney begged me to pull over. Begged.

I don't know what I was thinking.

I wasn't.

I pulled over.. even through my Dad was dying.. my days were spent there.. and I didn't have time to deal with a new kitten.

I rang the doorbell and asked about the Kittens.

The woman told me they only had one left.

I thought "oh good." I can tell the kids.. it wasn't meant to be.. and leave.

She brought the cat into me.. and of course it had bright blue eyes and was a Siamese type.

What we love.

And of course when I picked him up to hold him.. he nuzzled his little face into my neck.

Crap.

He came home with us.

We named him Skye.. and once again..

Mittens had to go through the hate-tolerate-love process.

The kids were in Heaven.

Looking back.. it was a good decision that he joined our family at that stressful time.. because he brought such joy to the kids--during that hard time.

Unfortunately... this picture was taken on the last day we saw him in September.

He disappeared just like Bandit.

I didn't even cry. I couldn't. I was grieving too much for Dad to start on something else too.

I am wondering if I just need to not form any sort of attachments to my cats.. because it's so hard to keep loosing them. It's hard to see my children hurt.

We are not sure if it's Foxes getting the cats... or if they are being taken.. but I told the kids it's nicer to think that someone is loving them in their home as we did.

*************

After Skye disappeared... I told the kids no more cats until Mittens is gone.

That didn't last long.

In October.. I was with some girlfriends for a night in Park City.. and Chad took the kids to his friend Adam's home that just "happened" to have found some little kittens.

That's all I heard about for the next 2 weeks.

Then one night.. Chad's friend Adam..called and asked us if we wanted them.. or they would be heading to the pound.

So.. we headed to Adam's house just too look.

This is WHY I cannot go into shelters.. Pet Stores... or stop at places that say Free Kittens.

I myself.. have no self control over their darling little faces.

Meet "Mouser".

She sounds like a squeaky mouse when she meows..

Meet "Tuffy"

( He looks like a Fluffy Tiger. )

Meet Tenney. The happiest pre-teen on the planet.

( And no... the cats are still outside. ) The kids only sneak them in sometimes.

But.. they do get in trouble.

Especially because they have animal allergies.. Including cats.

The things we do for LOVE.

*sigh*

Poor mittens... once again.. going through the hate-tolerate-love process.

I hope he trains them to be good hunters like he was.

I am happy to live in a Mouse free house (even with a huge field in back of us. )

I am happy when I hold the little purry fluff balls.

I am happy to see my kids happy.

Today I am Grateful for:

Bones the TV show. I laughed all night over the episode.

( And how cool to hear Mindy Gledhill's "anchor" on it! )

Date night with Chad.

Breakfast for Dinner ( A happy family )

Figuring out Pinterest on my own. Success!!! I have boards!

The weekend. So much to do... and it's all happy because I am with Chad!

All for Love....

2011-11-09T08:02:00.000-08:00

In May when Dad became too sick to get dressed in anything but Pajamas anymore.... my Mom gathered his denim jeans in a pile.. and asked if anyone wanted any.

None of the boys wore the same size Dad did.. and no one was claiming them... so I immediately knew they needed to come home with me.

I am just too sentimental for my own good.

I told my Mom I had a talented friend (Deanne) that made Blankets, backpacks, and pillow cases all from old jeans. They were awesome.. and I would ask her if I could pay her to make me some.

The amazing thing about the story... is the very night that I came home after talking with my Mom, there was an e-mail from my friend Deanne asking me if there was something she could do for me.. and even mentioned that she would be happy to do a quilt or something for me.

She wanted to give me some of her time for service.

I couldn't believe my eyes!!

I cried.

How did she know I was even thinking about it???

I know.

And I am grateful for all of the many friends that have acted on promptings from the spirit... and have shown me love and charity in many different ways.

Deanne went to work. I can't believe how fast she did it all.

I chose hearts so I could remember that this quilt was all about LOVE.

Love for my Dad... Love from a Talented friend.

How Sappy am I????

She made it a lap quilt.. and I was in heaven!

I love blankets with weight... and this was WARM!

Perfect for lounging around.

Deanne didn't stop there....

She then made me a KING Size one for camping.

It is so awesome and heavy.. it's almost like lifting weights carrying it around.

I am in Love.

For the Real.

And once again... Deanne didn't stop there....

I also had Deanne make one for my Mom.

I chose "BYU" fabric.. because that is where my Mom and Dad met each other.

I was so excited for my Mom to have it.. my attempts to hold onto it until Christmas Epically failed.

I am so Grateful for Deanne.

For her willingness to share her talents with me... and to bless us with such a sentimental treasure.

Today I am Grateful for:

Service.

Laughter.

Happy People.

Warmth.

All went great with my Organizing class last night. . I felt rejuvenated helping others get excited to "simplify" and get their spaces in order.

My Journey Through the Grieving Part 5

2011-11-07T08:01:00.000-08:00

" The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.

Beautiful people do not just "happen".

Growth can come in unexpected ways.. from the nooks and crannies of our life's experiences.

In death and grief we do not need so much protection from painful experiences as we need the boldness to face them. We do not need as much to be tranquilized from the pain as we need the strength to conquer it. If we choose to love...we must also have the courage to grieve."

~ Roy Nichols

THIS IS A MUST READ.

My ward member friend who has helped me through this grieving journey told me I NEEDED to read this book by Deanna Edwards. She said it helped more than any other book on grieving.

I had never even heard of Deanna Edwards... but I guess she sings songs.. and has helped thousands of people through their journey with mourning and grief.

Even though I am not a reader... in desperation.. I read.

************

As I turned the pages... It was as if I was in my very own Herbal Essences commercial.

I found myself wanting to proclaim: Yes! yes! Yes! as I read all about grief... and found myself to be completely NORMAL. ( I know.. what's normal? haha)

Yay! I am not crazy!

The chapters include:

1- What is Grief?

2- What is grief Work?

3- The process of Grief

4-What does Grief Feel like?

5-Is it Okay to cry?

6-How do I know when I am healing?

7- Should we include the children?

8-How do I help a loved one?

9-How can we create with Grief?

10-The Promise

I have read this book twice now.

I highlighted it throughout.

It seriously has brought me ultimate comfort.

Even though the majority of the book deals with Grief from Death.. it does talk about grief in any way, shape or form such as: Divorce, physical disability, and unfulfilled dreams.

I wish every person in the world could read chapter 8.

It should be printed in Relief Society President's manuals.

Seriously.

In chapter 8...Deanna lists things you shouldn't say to a person whom is grieving..

and you know what?? I was horrified to see that I have said all but a few.. to people.

When she explained why.. I understood.. and felt bad for my mistakes.

She also shares WHAT to say.. and HOW to comfort.

It is simply amazing.

~ After reading the book for the 2nd time.. my heart was so full of love for Deanna.. I wanted to write her and tell her how comforted I was from her book. So.. I googled her.. and found that she died in December 2010. Nooooo!!!!

I googled her obituary.. read it.. and grieved for her.

She has probably helped Millions through the Grieving process.

What a charitable woman.

So very, very grateful for her.

*********************

Tired of the Grieving posts?

Me too.

They are Heavy.

I look forward to getting back with life.

Learning to accept the sadness... but look for the joy.

I am sure there will be more posts in the future.. just not all together.

Please continue to be patient with me.. in my travels through it.

Today I am Grateful for:

Deanna Edwards.

Growing, Learning and Experiencing each day...

Dinner with good friends Saturday night

Good examples in my life

Continued Strength

My Journey Through the Grieving Part 4

2011-11-05T11:18:00.000-07:00

Disconnected.

For some reason... I have found it really hard to open up with people -- about how I feel with the Loss of my Dad unless they have experienced a loss as well.

It's back to that feeling of being part of a "club."

Don't get me wrong.. I know there are people born with a compassionate heart... but for the most part....people ask " How are you" as a habit.. rather than really wanting to know how you are.

And you can totally tell.

And if it's a bad day... they look like they want to run for even asking .. because what do they do or say to comfort you after???

This is an area I have "grown up" in big time since Dad's death.

I try to really ask people how they are and make time for a real answer.

A listening ear is perhaps one of the greatest blessings you can give someone going through Grief.

I was recently talking with an old friend who had just lost her Mother not long ago.. and she said " I even feel bad that my husband has to hear the same things over.... and over.. with how I feel. "

I so know that.

I know I repeat myself. over and over.

I go to tell a friend something I have felt during this experience.. and I think " Have I shared this with them before?" I probably have.

I feel guilty.

A great amount of guilt.

In the last month... I have had many opportunities to be with many of my girlfriends in very happy settings. We all get together.. and everything should feel perfect.

So.. why doesn't it feel perfect??

I'm with people I love and adore.

We are doing happy things... so why do I feel so dis-connected???

Don't get me wrong.. I have had many happy days that are fine.
Everything seems well.. and I have had joy and happiness surrounding me.

But-- inevetably... there have been some very embarrassing days where I think:

" Why are these people still around me?? I am crazy! Sad! Weird!

Maybe I should apologize for being so "sad... and not with it."

I think more so than ever... true friends continue to support and stick with you..even through your darkest days. I am learning this now more than ever.

An older Woman in my ward has helped me a great deal through this Grieving journey.

Some of her wise cousel she has shared.

1- You can make a choice everyday whether to crawl in the black cave.. or get up and move forward.

We always have a choice.

2- Patterns in the church are very important. When HUGE trials come your way.. including grief.. reading your scriptures.. prayer..temple attendance and daily activities can seem so hard to tackle. Keep the patterns going. -- As hard as it may be.

3- Grieve. Let it pass through you.

You can't go over it.. under it.. or around it.

She told me.. if you push it aside.. it will come back one day.. and you will have to deal with it then.

It's better to just accept it.. let it pass through you.. and embrace it.

4- Losing a loved one ( especially a spouse ) is much like having your legs amputated.

You know you have to adjust to your new life and circumstances and move on.. but it feels as though 1/2 of your body is truly missing.

5- Try to find joy and be Thankful..Be Grateful everyday.
Even if it's the smallest things.

In the past..I never have had a hard time finding things to be Grateful for.

In fact... I sometimes felt as though my heart could literally *burst* because I feel so much gratitude -- for so much in my life.

But during the severe times of grief in the past weeks... it was all I could do to think of 5 things at the end of each blog post that I could feel "thankful" for.

Yes.... the pattern of expressing Gratitude has helped me abundantly.

A few weeks ago.., Chad left for the Deer Hunt.. and I usually go down south to be with one of my Best friends Monica during that time.

I have always LOVED this time.. to be with her.. and explore her little town.

This year.. things were planned.. and I just couldn't bring myself to go there. I knew how I would be.. so I checked out completely... and stayed home to wallow in my feelings.

Things I did Deer Hunt Weekend....

I turned on "Drive" by the cars and listened to it 30 or 40 times.
I have been known to do that when life just seems diffficult.
Finding a "deep and meaningful" song.. and playing it over and over...

I read an entire book on Grieving. Twice even.

Seriously.. changed my life. I will share about it later.

I talked with an old friend who is grieving also. It was theraputic.

I cleaned.. I organized... I de-cluttered my house... and my life.

I went to Stake/Regional Conference.

And perhaps.. that was the reason I was supposed to stay home for the weekend.

Just to hear Elder Bednar tell ME some profound things.

I was weepy through his whole talk.

Some of the things I learned from the Conference..

1- The Atonement is not just for our sins.. it is also for our pain.

2- Serve others. Even when their trials may be less than ours.

3- Be more Christ like. Study and learn the Character of Christ.

That weekend home.. reading... sorting.. learning ended up becoming very theraputic for me.

Sometimes.. you've gotta just check out.

" Being human, we would expel from our lives physical pain and mental anguish and assure ourselves of continual ease and comfort, but if we were to close the doors upon sorrow and distress, we might be excluding our greatest friends and benefactors. Suffering can make saints of people as they learn patience, long suffering, and self mastery. "

~ Spencer W. Kimball

Today I am Grateful for:

Patterns.

Warmth.

Goals.

Fuzzy slippers.

Peppermint Hot Chocolate